Privacy Dashboard.
Your private preferences are used server-side for matching and are never rendered on any profile. Matches see what your preferences allow — never your answers.
Shown to matches
- First name and age
- Your photos
- City names only — never a neighborhood or address
- Verification badges
- What your preferences allow (never the answers themselves)
Never shown
- Income and partner income preference
- Education preferences
- Religion, faith importance, and partner religion preferences
- Politics
- Ethnic background and partner ethnicity preferences
- Languages and fluency levels
- Monogamy and kink answers
- Lifestyle answers (drinking, cannabis, sleep, fitness)
- Deal-breakers and green flags
- Attachment, values, and conflict-style scores
- Your last-relationship answer
Instagram connection
Not linked
Linking Instagram lets your reviewer glance at your public profile as one signal among many. We never post, message, or import your followers. Your handle stays private — it never appears on your profile. You can unlink anytime.
Private preference fields are encrypted at rest with per-member keys. No ads, no data sales, zero third-party trackers, one-tap deletion, and a quarterly transparency report.
Delete my account
Deletion is real: billing stops immediately, you leave the matching pool immediately, and after a 7-day recovery window your profile, matches, conversations, and coach history are permanently erased. Invoices and safety records are kept only as the law requires.