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Privacy Policy

Effective: [EFFECTIVE DATE] · Marlow, Inc. [entity placeholder]

Marlow is a paid, private matchmaking service. Our business model is your membership fee — not

your data. This policy says plainly what we collect, why, who touches it, and how to delete it.

1. What we collect

You give us:

Application & profile: name, date of birth, gender, orientation, profession, photos,

free-text answers (life goals, ideal date, relationship history, deal-breakers), voice notes,

cities and travel patterns, relationship intent.

Private preferences (sensitive): income range and partner-income preference, financial

style, religion and practice, political leaning, monogamy and intimacy preferences, lifestyle

(alcohol, cannabis, other substances). These are **encrypted at rest, never shown on any

profile, never sold, never browsed by staff, and read only by the matching system**; every

programmatic access is logged. Providing them is optional (skipping may reduce match quality).

Messages & coach conversations: chats with matches; conversations with Aria. Aria

conversations are private to you, are not shared with matches, are not used to train

third-party AI models, and are deletable by you at any time.

Generated or collected during use:

Verification data: government ID images and extracted data, biometric identifiers

(face geometry from your liveness selfie — see the Biometric Consent for retention limits),

phone/email confirmation, optional LinkedIn verification.

Background check results via our consumer-reporting partner (see the Background Check

Disclosure): criminal-record categories, registry status, marriage-status indicators. We

store the adjudication outcome, not the full report, past the verification decision.

Matching signals: compatibility scores and internal pairing signals derived from your

application, photos, and in-app decisions (see AI & Automated Processing Disclosure).

Usage & device data: first-party analytics events (allow-listed), IP-derived

city-level location, device type. Trip Mode, if you enable it, uses device location to

detect the *city* you are in; we store city names and dates only — never precise coordinates,

and matches never see live location.

2. What we never do

Never sell or rent personal data. Not to advertisers, brokers, or affiliates.

No third-party advertising trackers. No Meta pixel, no TikTok pixel, no ad SDKs.

Never display private preferences — matches see at most derived compatibility statements

("open to interfaith"), never your answers.

Never use your face data for anything except verification — no training, no marketing.

3. Why we process data (and legal bases where GDPR applies)

4. Who receives data

Processors under contract, only what each needs: Stripe (payments), Persona/[Onfido]

(ID + liveness), Checkr (background screening — acting as a consumer reporting agency),

Twilio (SMS), Resend (email), Vercel & Supabase (hosting; encrypted at rest), Mapbox (city

lookup), Anthropic (AI processing of the text needed for matching rationale, parsing, and Aria

— under a no-training data-processing agreement), Daily.co (video calls; not recorded by

default). Plus: authorities when legally compelled (we publish counts in a quarterly

transparency report), and successors in a merger (with notice).

5. Retention

Account data: life of the account + [30] days after deletion completes.

Deletion is real: Settings → Privacy Dashboard → Delete. 7-day recovery window, then

permanent erasure of profile, matches, conversations (including your side in counterparts'

threads), coach history, and matching signals. Legal/financial records (invoices, bond

transactions, safety reports) are retained as required by law.

ID images and biometric templates: deleted on the schedule in the Biometric Consent

(verification decision + [12] months maximum, or upon account deletion, whichever is sooner).

Background reports: adjudication outcome only; underlying report not retained past decision.

6. Your rights

Depending on where you live (GDPR, UK GDPR, CCPA/CPRA, and similar): access, portability

(one-tap "Download my data"), correction, deletion, restriction, objection to profiling, and

the right not to face fully-automated decisions with legal or similarly significant effects —

application rejections at Marlow always involve human review. Exercise any right in the

Privacy Dashboard or via privacy@marlowlove.com. We don't discriminate for exercising rights.

CPRA: we do not "sell" or "share" personal information as defined; sensitive-PI use is limited

to providing the service you requested.

7. Security

Encryption in transit and at rest; column-level encryption with managed keys for private

preferences and internal matching signals; row-level security on every table; access on

least-privilege with append-only audit logs; annual penetration testing; breach notification as

required by law. No system is perfect — see Section 6 rights and our transparency report.

8. International transfers

Data is processed in the United States. Where GDPR applies, transfers rely on Standard

Contractual Clauses with each processor. [Counsel: confirm EU representative + UK rep needs.]

9. Children

Marlow is 21+. We do not knowingly process data of anyone under 21, and age is verified

against government ID.

10. Changes & contact

Material changes: 30 days' notice. Questions: privacy@marlowlove.com · Marlow, Inc. [ADDRESS].

[Counsel: confirm whether a DPO is required.]

Draft — under legal review · legal@marlowlove.com